Showing posts with label School Wide Work!. Show all posts
Showing posts with label School Wide Work!. Show all posts

Saturday, August 25, 2018

What does an elementary school counselor do?

Maybe you are new to our school?  Maybe you have never heard of a school counselor in an elementary school?  Maybe you are still confused about what Mrs. G does all day?!

The Essential Role of Elementary School Counselors

Check out this informative document created by The American School Counselor Association to learn more about elementary school counseling and, of course, reach out with any questions or to to learn more about school counseling at Pond Cove.  Please also check out the taps at the top of this blog to learn more about my work at Pond Cove School!


Monday, October 3, 2016

The Buddy Bench Is Out!!!!

Now that all Pond Cove kids have been trained, the Buddy Bench has finally taken it's spot on the Pond Cove playground!  I am planning to be out to recesses as much as possible today and can't wait to see the connections made with help from the bench!



Saturday, September 17, 2016

The Pond Cove Buddy Bench Movie!

I teamed up with Mrs. Tweedie's 4th grade class to make a movie about the Pond Cove Buddy Bench.  We are currently in the process of showing the movie to every classroom during Guidance.  Blogger wouldn't let me put the entire movie on my blog but I was able to put segments of the movie below for you to enjoy.  Thanks again to the Pond Cove Parents Association and last year's 4th grade class for this generous gift.  The Buddy Bench will be moved to our playground as soon as I finish up this round of guidance classes.  I can't wait!!!


A few of our students had Buddy Benches in their former schools.  They have been a huge help to me, as we work to train our school on how to use this awesome friendship tool.  Here is one of our resident Buddy Bench experts explaining more about how the bench works.  


In this skit a student who is new to Pond Cove is feeling overwhelmed on the playground.  She connects with classmates looking for more people to play tag.  

In this skit a student doesn't have anyone to play with because her friends are in chorus on Tuesdays.  The bench helps her connect with a new crew!  

In this skit a student doesn't feel like playing cards with the friends that he usually plays with.  He uses the Buddy Bench to connect with someone who is also looking for someone to play ball with.  

In this skit two classmates notice a classmate sitting on the Buddy Bench.  They decide to sit and join her for a chat!  

Friday, August 19, 2016

Coming Soon To A Playground Near You....The Pond Cove Buddy Bench!



Our Buddy Bench can't wait to head outside!
Last year's 4th graders class gift!


Thanks to last years 4th graders and the Pond Cove Parent Association, this year Pond Cove playground will have its first Buddy Bench!  What is a buddy bench you ask?  Basically, a buddy bench is a designated bench that students can use as a way to connect with new friends.  Let's say that you can't find anyone to play with but are nervous to walk over and ask a new group to play, you can take a seat on the buddy bench, which signifies to others that you would like to be included.  Before you know it, your classmates will be headed over to you with invitations to play!

Our Buddy Bench will stay in my office for the first couple of weeks of school so that all Pond Cove students can learn how to use the bench and be trained to keep an eye out for students who are sitting on the bench and want to be included.  Stay tuned for more Buddy Bench updates!  

Thursday, May 12, 2016

Cooperative Games

There is no shortage of competitive board games but you may not have easy access to games that are designed to be cooperative.   Cooperative games are a great way to help children build teamwork and collaboration skills.  You can play many traditionally competitive games as a team and make them cooperative in nature.  

Here are some of my favorites:

Don't Break the Ice can be played both competitively and cooperatively.  
In my office we usually play as a team and try to take as many turns as possible before the bear falls.  

Jenga is another game that can be played both competitively and cooperatively.  In my office we often try to make the tower as tall as possible before in falls.  We help each other to find loose pieces and sometime help our teammates remove blocks if we are at a better angle.  

The Secret Door and Max are games that are designed to be cooperative.  In each game players are given a challenge that they have to work together to solve.  Players take turns but are working towards the same goal and can offer each other suggestions and advice.  

Monday, April 11, 2016

Talking To Children About Death And Grief

If your child and/or family has been affected by our community's recent tragic loss, you may find these resources helpful.  Please also feel comfortable reaching out to me directly for guidance and support. 

Short helpful video- talking to kids about death

http://www.cgcmaine.org - The Center For Grieving Children has an amazing website filled with resources to help parents support children around loss and grief.  

https://childrengrieve.org/sites/default/files/spiritweb/10%20Ways%20to%20Help%20grieving%20children.pdf - 10 Ways to help grieving children by the National Alliance of grieving children 

http://www.sesamestreet.org/parents/topicsandactivities/topics/grief  - Videos, talking points, activities, and additional resources to help you talk with your child about loss.  


http://www.fredrogers.org/parents/special-challenges/death.php - The Fred Rodgers Company website offers very wise advice in regards to talking with children about death.  Short and worth the read.  

If you are looking for a book to share with young children about death and loss, I recommend the The Fall of Freddie the Leaf.


Again, please call or email if you are concerned about your child or want further support in having these difficult conversations.  

Friday, April 8, 2016

Grow Your Brain!

Guidance classes have been on hold while I have been supporting our 3rd and 4th grade students during MEA testing but we will soon get back to our lessons and activities designed to help develop a growth mindset in students.  Check out this great video neuroplasticity that I recently found.  I can't wait to show it to classrooms!


Wednesday, April 6, 2016

Mrs. G's Worry-Work and Elevator Update

As many of you know, thanks to clinical social worker Lynn Lyons, I am using some new strategies this year to help support students who are struggling with worries or anxious feelings.  I am so proud of my Pond Cove friends who have worked hard to stop their worry cycle.  It's been amazing to watch students grow more confident as they learn strategies to talk back to their worry.  As students become experts on using their knowledge and skills, they are able to focus more attention back onto learning and fun.

If you have been following my blog closely, you may also have seen that Lynn's workshop in the Fall also changed how I respond to my own worries.  If you're interested in seeing some of the skills that I have been teaching in action, check out theses videos of me and my friend Mr. Elevator!  

October 2015


April 2016

Monday, March 7, 2016

Great Article About the Importance of Social and Emotional Learning

This short article does a great job articulating the importance of social and emotional learning and provides a strong framework for what a successful school program looks like.  I found it so helpful and validating.  Check it out!



http://www.edutopia.org/blog/why-sel-essential-for-students-weissberg-durlak-domitrovich-gullotta?utm_source=twitter&utm_medium=socialflow

Wednesday, February 24, 2016

Leadership Class!!!!


Mrs. Whitaker's 4th grade class has invited me to join them in an adventure in student leadership!  Mrs. Whitaker and I have been setting aside time to allow students to discuss ideas they have that may help improve our school.  We created quite a long list of ideas but were able to narrow it down to a few topics that students are invested in and feel are realistic for us to tackle this year.  Currently we are creating to do lists for each idea/topic.  Stay tuned to see student leadership and ideas put into action!


Here Mrs. Whitaker writes student ideas about 
how to encourage more outdoor learning at Pond Cove!

Wednesday, February 3, 2016

Taking Charge of Our Small Problems!

Problem solving boxes are currently being distributed to classrooms!  Please encourage your student(s) to use the provided form to describe their small problem and indicate the strategies that they used to solve the problem.




Monday, January 25, 2016

Love this! You need to be willing to fail and make mistakes to truly learn and grow.


New Friends, New Learning Opportunities



Ms. Malisha, my new friend!

I have been so lucky to have made a new friend here at school.   Ms. Malisha is the Dean of Students at the Taktse International School in India.  Ms. Malisha, along with a group of her students, have been visiting for the last few weeks, learning about our culture and school, and sharing about their culture and experiences.  Ms. Malisha and I have realized how similar our roles are within our schools.  I have been so enjoying our conversations about education, connecting with students, and helping young people navigate through tough times.  

Taktse International School

My time with Ms. Malisha has demanded me of the value of meeting new people, visiting new places, and being open to different perspectives.  What can you do today that will open you up to new experiences?  Will you put yourself in a position to make a new connection and potentially begin a new friendship?  



Monday, October 19, 2015

Confronting My Worries aka Mrs. G and the Elevator

I have had anxiety about being trapped in a small space as long as I can remember.  For the last 30+ years I have been actively avoiding elevators, tunnels, parking garages, and closets (to name a few).  After the workshop that I attended a couple of week ago, called "How to Stop the Worry Cycle" by Lynn Lyons, I am changing the way that I work with and support students that are struggling with worries.  The workshop also made me reevaluate the way I respond to my own anxiety.  In all the years of my life I have made very little progress handling my fear of small spaces.  In trying to avoid situations that may make me uncomfortable, I have missed out on exciting opportunities.  I chose not to go to the top of the Empire State Building.  I passed on the chance to check out underground caves.  When we visit family in Cape Cod, I often opt to be stuck in downtown Boston traffic to avoid going under the city in the tunnel.  Starting today, I am going on offense against my worry.  I am no longer going to let it rule my decisions.  Check out what I did today........

Thanks to my 2nd grade videographer!

Tuesday, October 13, 2015

More Growth Mindset Stuff (Because I Can't Get Enough)

Many of you already know that I LOVE Carol Dweck and her work around mindsets and learning.  Here is a recent article from Dweck herself that is a great read.

http://www.edweek.org/ew/articles/2015/09/23/carol-dweck-revisits-the-growth-mindset.html?cmp=SOC-SHR-TW

Friday, October 9, 2015

Amazing Conference About Breaking the Worry Cycle!

I went to the most amazing workshop today about breaking the worry cycle in children and families.  The presenter was social worker Lynn Lyons and her approach made so much sense to me.  I'll be sharing more specifics soon but here is a video to check out to learn more.  I've also linked Lynn's website below.  I love challenging my thinking, learning something new, and practicing new strategies to help kids!



Monday, September 21, 2015

Link to Peaceful Pond Cove Family Packet


Here at Pond Cove we work hard to make strong connections with all of our students.  We want every child to feel welcomed, cared for, and safe.  We believe that in order to maintain the best environment for learning we need to be clear about our expectations, and be consistent in how we respond to choices that are hurtful.  Please check out the link below for more about the Peaceful Pond Cove plan.  


Tuesday, September 1, 2015

Goal Sheet Template for Individual Work


One of my goals for this school year is to better help students meet their own school related goals and communicate more effectively with parents and teachers about student progress.  Check out this great goal sheet that I'm planning to use as a template.  Questions?  Feedback?  I'd love to hear it!


Friday, August 28, 2015

Welcoming New Pond Cove Students and Families

I was incredibly fortunate to meet over a dozen new students today.  This morning I hosted my first new family open house in my office and had one-on-one appointments with families scheduled for the remainder of the day.  It has been wonderful to connect with so many students and parents prior to school starting.  Ensuring that new students have a smooth transition to our school and feel happy and welcome, is a huge priority for me.  I'm looking forward to this being an annual event from now on!   If you're new to Pond Cove but were not able to attend today, I would still love to connect with you.  Please feel comfortable reaching out to arrange a time to talk in person or over the phone.  I am also available to our veteran Pond Cove parents!  If something changed for you over the summer, you have a question or concern, or you would just like to reconnect, I'm just a call or email away.




Saturday, August 22, 2015

Letter to Parents Regarding Survey Results and Guidance Services in the 2015/2016 School Year


Dear Pond Cove Parents,  

I want to thank each of you who took the time to complete the survey about Guidance Services at Pond Cove school.  I want to take this opportunity to report out about the survey results, my take-aways, and some action steps for this school year.  I am including, as an attachment, the data results collected through Survey Monkey, but also will summarize the findings here.  

Summary of Parent Survey Results

There were 119 completed surveys.  One of the first questions asked parents to rate potential guidance topics.  Of the 18 potential guidance topics, 14 were rated by respondents to be in the important to very important range.  The following topics had the highest percentage of parents that rated them to be very important or important; Empathy/Kindness (97.48%), Conflict Resolution (97.46%), Coping Skills (94.95%), Proactive Approaches to Prevent Bullying (92.44%), Peer Pressure (92.37%), Problem Solving (92.30%),  and Appreciation for Diversity (91.59%).

In rating Guidance Services in terms of priority, the majority of respondents rated all five of the school counseling services identified as being either a moderate or top priority.  94.87% of survey respondents rated Small Group Work as either a top or moderate priority.  91.45% responded that Consultation with Parents and Teachers should be a top or moderate priority. 90.51% felt that Classroom Guidance Lessons should be a top or moderate priority.  87.18% felt that Individual Counseling should be a top or moderate priority, and 83.48% felt that School Wide Initiatives should be a top or moderate priority.  

A little over half of the respondents  (55.46%) indicated that they have had direct contact with the School Counselor.  Of those that have had direct contact, 93.94% of respondents indicated that it was helpful.  In a separate question, the majority of respondents (93.22%) indicated that they would feel comfortable seeking out the School Counselor with a concern.  Of those that responded that they would not be comfortable seeking out the school counselor, some of the reasons given included questions about when reaching out would be appropriate and questions of confidentiality.  

I apologize for the mistake in formating question 6 (“If your child has had regular time with the school counselor individually or in a group, would you say that experience was helpful”).   Because of my mistake in formatting the response options, it’s difficult to provide clear response percentages.  Based on the comments provided in this section, it appears that many parents felt positively about their child’s individual or small group time but would like more feedback from me regarding their child’s progress.  

Although all the survey results were extremely helpful, I especially appreciate the time it took to write individual comments.  I very much appreciated all of the kind words and compliments about the School Counseling program.   I also agreed with many of the suggestions regarding how to strengthen the program.  It was clear from some of the comments that it would be helpful for me to give more information about my role as a School Counselor and the Guidance Services offered at Pond Cove.  Some respondents indicated that they were unclear about when it would be appropriate to contact me as the School Counselor and what the boundaries of confidentiality would be within that conversation.  Others indicated that they would like more information about guidance lessons and content, and would like more follow-up during and after their student has had individual or group counseling services.  

The Role of the School Counselor and Confidentiality

Let me start by addressing some of the confusion around confidentiality, and my role as a School Counselor and a support to parents.  I walk into Pond Cove School everyday with the goal of helping to ensure that every student has a positive school experience.  I work to make a connection with every child, teacher, and parent.  I believe building relationships is important because it helps all stakeholders feel comfortable in our school building.  My experience with building these trusting relationships has been that people become much more comfortable seeking me out when there is a problem or concern, as I emphasize that confidentiality is paramount in my work with students and families.  

My work in classrooms is also twofold,  I use my classroom guidance time to teach prosocial skills to help students navigate peer relationships and expected behaviors.  I also see my classroom time as an opportunity to build and grow relationships with students, so that they feel comfortable working with me if a specific need for support arises.  If there is a concern, situation, or dynamic with a student that may impact them at school, I consider it my job to help that student and family through positive and productive strategies within the school environment.  With that being said, it is always appropriate -- and I welcome -- parents reaching out to me if they have a concern about their child at school or have a concern that something going on outside of school may be impacting them during the school day.  

In terms of confidentiality, I consider anything that a parent shares with me privately to be confidential and will keep to myself, unless that parent and I decide together to share that information with an appropriate member of our school staff.  The rare exceptions of when I would need to share confidential information with administrators or outside agencies such as the Department of Health and Human Services would include situations where a child is suspected of being harmed or when there is a court order that mandates my involvement. If I feel that a parent has shared with me something that would be helpful for the classroom teacher to know, I will ask that parent if they are comfortable with me sharing specific  information with that teacher.  If the parent asks me to share information that we have discussed, I will be clear with them what I will be sharing and which parts of our discussion will not be shared.  I have included on my website a great article about School Counselors and  confidentiality that provides more detail.   I take this part of my job extremely seriously, as I feel trust is one of the most essential elements to being an effective School Counselor.   My goal is for all Pond Cove parents to feel comfortable seeking me out if they have a concern, question, are looking for support, or are looking for guidance on how to solve a school-related issue.   One of the most important things I have learned from these survey results is that I need to do more to inform parents about my role, invite them to reach out to me and take every opportunity to connect, and to make clearer what to expect from me in terms of confidentiality and follow-up.  Thank you, again, for providing this feedback so that I can improve and grow in my role and better support students and their families.

Action Steps & Changes for the Coming School Year

I am excited to share with you the work that I have been doing this summer to prepare for the 2015-2016 school year.  In addition to surveying parents, I also surveyed teachers in the spring and used the information from both surveys to guide my plans.  Two of my major foci this year will be to be more strategic with my time in classrooms, and to communicate more with teachers and parents about the work that I am doing with students in all settings.  Over the summer I have created a K-4 “roadmap” for classroom guidance that targets many of the topics that were rated as priorities, but also articulates what skills are expected from students at each grade level in each area.  This explicit roadmap will help keep my work in classrooms focused and productive.  The roadmap also will make it easier for me to give parents and teachers information on skills that we are working on in each classroom so each will know how to best support current work underway.  I have created a School Counseling blog that I plan to use to share information about the current focus in Classroom Guidance, more information about my role as a School Counselor, and information about how I work with students individually and in small groups.  I encourage you to check out the blog regularly to stay up to date and feel free to reach out with any questions.  

In terms of my individual and small group work, I plan to follow up with parents at least every 6 weeks to discuss progress and make a plan to move forward.  When it is appropriate and the work I am doing with students is closely tied to their academics or classroom behavior, I will be using goal sheets that will keep track of strategies and monitor progress.  Goals and progress will be shared with teachers and parents.  

In conclusion, I will continue to provide a balance of services including classroom guidance, individual and small group work, consultation services, and remain involved in school wide initiatives that improve school culture. I will work to strengthen my communication with parents by frequently updating my blog, communicating more regularly with the parents of students I am working with directly, and taking every opportunity to inform parents about my role as Pond Cove’s School Counselor, and give them information about how I can partner with them.  I feel incredibly fortunate to work in such a strong, child-centered community.  Thank you so much for your feedback and support.  Keep it coming!

Sincerely,

Bri Gallagher
Pond Cove School Counselor
bgallagher@capeelizabethschools.org
207-799-7339